Battle Hymn Of The Tiger Mother May 2026

Chua’s daughters had to play piano or violin, often practicing for hours daily.

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Anything less than an "A" was considered a failure. Chua’s daughters had to play piano or violin,

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Despite the critics who predicted her children would be traumatized, both of Chua’s daughters (Sophia and Lulu) graduated from Ivy League schools and have publicly defended their mother, stating that while the upbringing was intense, it gave them the tools to succeed and a deep bond with their parents.

Chua argues that true self-esteem comes from competence . By forcing children to work through difficulty until they succeed, they gain a "true" confidence that cannot be shattered.