"It seems like we’re just repeating ourselves now. Let’s take a break and circle back when there’s new information." 7. The Ultimate Secret: Define the Win
If they get loud, you get quieter. It makes them look irrational and gives you the moral high ground. How to Win Every Argument
"That’s a separate issue we can discuss later, but right now we’re talking about [X]." 5. Listen for the "Third Option" "It seems like we’re just repeating ourselves now
If your goal is to make them say "I was wrong," you will almost always lose. Pride is a powerful motivator. If your goal is to get your way or change their behavior, let them save face. It makes them look irrational and gives you
"I see your point about X, and if we combine that with Y, I think we have a solution."